What you need to know to keep your kids safe

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What you need to know to keep your kids safe

 

Parenting older children can be tough. They are no longer children, but they are still your children and that means that it’s still your job to keep them safe, no matter what they think. When kids hit their teen years they think that they know everything, that you don’t know anything, and that everything you say is just to get on their nerves. However, that doesn’t mean that you can give up parenting your children. In this article, we’re going to be taking a look at some of the things that you need to do as a parent to keep your child safe, so keep reading if you would like to find out more.

Where They Are Going

Your kids are going to start going out with their friends a lot more the older they get, and they are not going to want you to go with them like they did when they were younger. As such, you’ve got to step back a little and trust them to behave and be safe with the people that they are with. However, you also need to know where they are going and what they are going to be doing. Ask them before they go, because if something does go wrong, you need to know where they are.

We are fully aware that sometimes teens change their mind when they are going out and about concerning what they’re going to be doing. As such, you should ask your child to text you if there are any changes to the plan, just so you know and have peace of mind. At least then, if they need you for whatever reason, you know exactly where you are going.

Keeping Them Safe Online

The next thing that we’re going to say is going to split some people. You need to make sure that your kids are being safe online, especially with the rise of cyberbullying and cyberattacks that have been happening over the last few years. You do not want your child to be caught up in anything like this, but you also don’t want them to end up in any kind of trouble online either. 

You have two options when it comes to keeping your kids safe online. The first is that you educate them to the best of your ability, and then you trust them to take the advice that you have given. You let them look up things like what is a vpn tunnel so that they understand how to keep their searches private etc. Or, you can do the controversial option and download a piece of software onto the device to see what’s going on. Some people say this is a huge invasion of privacy, others say it’s important for safety, but only you can decide.

Ensuring They Are Healthy

It is also your job as a parent to keep your kids healthy, which is part of keeping them safe. If they are not healthy then they are at risk of all kinds of health problems, which is the very last thing that you want. Even if they are not at home that much, you still need to do your part to ensure that they are eating well, maintaining a good level of activity, and that they are mentally well. There are times where kids will try to hide things from us, and this is more common in the teenage years so it’s certainly something that you are going to need to look into.

Sometimes we fall into bad habits, we make bad choices, and we don’t really think about the consequences at the time. Kids are especially vulnerable to doing things like this, but it’s up to you to help them through it. You need to educate them the best that you can about health, but further than this, there isn’t much that you are going to be able to do.

We hope that you have found this article helpful, and now see some of the things that you are going to need to do to keep your kids as safe as possible. We completely understand that it is hard when you have older kids as you have to give them some level of independence, while also keeping them as safe as you can. The short answer here is that you can only do the best that you can, and if you can say that, then  you have done your job as a parent. We wish you the very best of luck, and hope that this turns out well.

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Naturally Yours,
Elise Ho
Ph.D., D.N. Psych.
Behavioral & Mental Health Specialist

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Dr. Elise Ho

Dr. Elise Ho

Dr. Elise Ho is a Holistic Health & Life Coach with a special interest in emotional health, life alignment, and energy flow.

Elise will partner with you to align your mindset, your energy, your home and your career so that you can live your life's desire with freedom and love.

Elise offers 30 years of experience and multiple certifications and degrees including a Ph.D. in Natural Health and a doctoral degree in Naturopathic Psychology.