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Why Must We Fight and Does Someone Really Win?

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Why Must We Fight and Does Someone Really Win?

Do you know how to win a fight? Does it even matter who wins the fight? Perhaps it is all a matter of respect. When considering this question I am confronted with thoughts of the golden rule.

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This golden rule is golden for a reason.

 

 

No matter what religion that you follow, if any at all, this holds true all the way through.

 

Why should we expect someone to treat us differently then we treat them?

 

This, of course, leads me to think about Karma and the fact that I believe that Karma plays into everything.

 

This principle of cause and effect wherein your actions today will influence what comes back to you tomorrow brings up a fascinating one.

 

What I can tell you is that, like Pinocchio, I let my conscious be my guide.

 

My intention is to have all my actions come from my true inner spirit.

 

I believe that people should turn away from negativity and live their life in positivity.

 

This is not to say that I am a Pollyanna. I am very, very aware of the realities of life.

The choice to see the good in others is conscious.

 

I focus on the fact that everyone is operating with the knowledge and ability that they have at the time.

 

If I do begin to react in a way that is not appropriate to the situation I will stop, take a deep, cleansing breath and then begin again. When all else fails then it is simply time to end the conversation.

 

How about you?

 

Do you know how to fight?

 

How do you refocus if you are not reacting in a way that is appropriate to the situation?

 

Does anyone really “win” a fight?

 

I would love to know. Please share your thoughts by commenting below and if you enjoy reading this I sure would appreciate some social sharing. 

 

originally published February 2016

 

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6 thoughts on “Why Must We Fight and Does Someone Really Win?”

  1. So true that the choice for peaceful living is ours to make.
    Yesterday, I was irritated by a message I received, and was appalled at my immediate reaction to lash out and “correct” the other person. I’m thankful for the Spirit’s prompting to cool off first and to offer a better response than my first instinct!

  2. I try hard to act appropriately in a fight, but honestly, I am such an introvert that I usually just wind up crying. LOL. I think it is super important to be very careful in fights and try to remain calm. This, of course, is easier said than done. I try to go the route of peace whenever possible.

    Visiting from #SimpleHomesteadBlogHop

    Blessings,

    Amy

  3. I think I know how to act when (in a fight) type of situation. I loved seeing the Pinocchio clip. I’ts been many years. I had two younger siblings and practiced fighting with them.

    Let your conscious be your guide was taught to me by my mother. As a young girl of 5, one of our neighbor’s oldest daughters prompted me to help her steal some birthday candles for the mud pies we were making. My mother found out and asked if I took them. I said no. She marched me right back to the store to give them back and to apologize. So I learned that lying and stealing was very wrong. My conscious never let me do either again.

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Dr. Elise Ho

Dr. Elise Ho

Dr. Elise Ho is a Holistic Health & Life Coach with a special interest in emotional health, life alignment, and energy flow.

Elise will partner with you to align your mindset, your energy, your home and your career so that you can live your life's desire with freedom and love.

Elise offers 30 years of experience and multiple certifications and degrees including a Ph.D. in Natural Health and a doctoral degree in Naturopathic Psychology.