A new empty nester has complicated feelings.
They are happy for their children but sad for themselves.
It is more important than ever to do things that nourish you.
A New Routine
One of the biggest challenges you’ll face is adjusting to life without your kids. This includes trying to get back to a normal routine, filling in the blanks in your life, and exploring new opportunities. After living a whole life where your kids are the center of your world, it’s natural to feel overwhelmed and like you don’t know what to do. But don’t let that worry you. You can find ways to fill in the gaps in your life through activities like online dating and chat line trials, learning about new cultures, and taking on new responsibilities.
Build yourself a new routine where you are the new center of your universe. Take time to figure out what you like to do. And what you want your new life to look like. Of course, spending time on yourself doesn’t mean you don’t still have time for your kids. But it’ll allow you to live your life to the fullest as well as support theirs.
Coping With The Loss
Managing feelings of loss and separation that comes with being an empty nester will be hard. When I became an empty nester I walked the halls of my house crying.
Seek out support from other family members and friends. Remember that your parents went through the same thing with you way back when. So lean on their knowledge for expert advice navigating these difficult times.
And try not to bear down on your children with the weight of your expectations. Because what you think will likely happen in the coming months is very different to what they expect. Open conversations about this will help bridge the gap. But more importantly, let them make their own mistakes. It’s the best way to learn, and they won’t resent you for not letting them live their life the way they want.
The most important thing you can do is stay connected with your kids. This means sending them periodic updates, keeping in touch through social media, and sharing any special moments together. It also means being there for them when they need you. It’s natural to feel lonely when your kids are gone for long periods. But by staying connected, you can help make the transition easier for both of you.
Create goals and positive ways to stay in touch with your children once they’ve left. Keeping in touch will help you navigate feelings of loneliness and continue to play an essential role in their lives.
Make Space For Your Hobbies In The Home
Another important thing you can do to make the transition easier for both you and your kids is to make space for your hobbies in the home. Hobbies are a great way to keep your mind active and help you relax.
As an empty nester, you have come upon a time in which you will have more time to explore your own hobbies. It is time to explore the things that you love. And rediscover yourself. Nothing is more empowering than making time for yourself and doing activities that you love and bring joy.